How to adopt abandoned children in Ukraine ?
For past years of children adoption foundation in Ukraine has
helped thousands children to find their adoptive parents and foster
care. Two out of these three adopted children were adopted in Ukraine
through domestic adoption program with Ukrainian parents. All these
children are the lucky ones, they have found their adoptive families
their fathers and mothers, their new families. They will grow in their
new families and there be a lot of doors that will be opened before
them. It will not be easy. But they already have and will have a choice.
Something other children do not have.
The history of adoption in Ukraine – this is the rare example where
the private initiative of the organization changed the system in the
state. Ukraine Adoption is one of the main tools, and probably the most
important method in the fight against children abandonment in Ukraine as
well as in any other country that face the same problem of abandoned
children like Ukraine adoption today. For other children who have not
found their adoptive family the choice will be left between the boarding
schools and orphanages.
There are many voice today that says that Ukraine should do away
with this old system of orphanages in Ukraine, it is simply should not
exist any more. Who would of say no ? Children should grow up in
families, and good families, but do we actually have this alternatives?
Perhaps orphanages of family type a new government initiatives will do
help in solving the problem to a certain extent but it will not solve
the problem to the point that entire boarding school system can be
dismantled and forgotten as the thing of the past.
Here are some barriers?
First, the “residential” system of orphanage in Ukraine is new and
not fully developed as the concept it is positive but it is still new.
It works this way to prevent adoption of the children by adoptive
parents in both domestic and/or international adoptions. The argument
behind this statement is in the fact how these family type orphanage
organized, they get their government financing as a boarding schools
based on the number of orphaned children admitted in the school.
Therefore, as the argument goes employees of these institution
family-type orphanages are the first people who are not interested in
adoption of their orphanage children.
Very often, children are being hidden from potential adoptive
parents, who would take the child or children into their personal
adoptive family, not the institution family type orphanage. It is also
noted that these family-type orphanages attribute to a non-existent
illness or mental disorder of the child to prevent these children to be
adopted by adoptive parents, as a some sort of deterrent factor that
will discourage adoptive parents from going any further to adopt these
children, labeled with mental disease. But will these institution
family-type orphanage any better for a child then adoptive family ? of
course not. But bureaucracy still makes its way. Certainly these people
and institutions are not govern by the best interest of the child.
Every good adoptive organization in Ukraine shall be able to verify
these “disease” and tell the truth to adoptive parents, the true state
of health of the adoptive child and with the help of authorised adoptive
agencies to overcome all of these obstacles and get these
“institutional disease” treated immediately with the help of government
legal assistance office. Ukraine policies towards abandoned children in
orphanages are made clear for everyone and give priorities in the field
of adoption,
both domestic adoptions and international adoption. Ukraine adoption is
the priority policy towards abandoned children in Ukraine.
The second problem, which systematically employs only the public
initiative is the formation in Ukraine of the culture of adoption.
Although over the last 10 years have seen fantastic mental shift in
culture of adoption in Ukraine there is still much left to be done to
develop better understanding and public receipt and public encouragement
for adoption. Now adoption in Ukraine is no taboo subject for
discussion, no shame, no big deal. But still it is not yet encouraged
and public did not speak in favor of it openly. The process of public
learning is still going on with much of a progress.
The third problem is the most difficult right now, it has been aggravated by the armed conflict in Eastern Ukraine is a social orphanhood.
This is when devastated economic fabric of society and deteriorating
welfare state and medical care forcing parents to leave children because
of socio-economic problems or because of severe diseases of child.
Ukraine adoption programs has all “prescriptions and drugs” in order to solve the problem of orphanhood and to permanently close the doors of children’s orphan homes.
Ukraine adoption federal program shall adopt only 4 steps:
1. The political will to close orphanages as the system for child
care, with adoption programs in place to care for abandoned children
2. Motto “Every child needs a family” has already become official state policy of Ukraine in the adoption field
3. To take working adoption policies and practice in Ukraine to
support both domestic adoption and international adoption of Ukraine
children. To adopt the best of international practice and policy in the
field of domestic and international adoptions.
4. Roll the sleeves and work
Then each of the presently abandoned child in Ukraine will have a
chance for a new family, a chance for the future, a chance at happiness.
God Bless
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