Famous American athlete without legs, the prize-winner of Paralympic games Oksana masters
Mother Oksana masters: “for the Sake of her adopted daughter in America I learned to cook soup and porridge”
Twenty years later, her family in Ukraine — came famous American
athlete without legs, the prize-winner of Paralympic games Oksana
masters
Oksana masters — the name of the girl was known in the United
States. Up to seven years her name was Oksana A. Cooper and she lived in
Izyaslav orphanage for children with disabilities. In her slender
private matter between details only a few lines: born June 19, 1989 year
in Khmelnytsky region, the parents refused the daughter’s soon after
her birth. The girl was born with a wide range of physical pathologies,
therefore hospital map was much more impressive personal case: the
membrane between fingers, six toes on my hands on five, but without
thumbs, deformed bones feet, the irregular shape of the kidney…
Physical disabilities of the child cheated on the consequences of
the accident at the Chernobyl nuclear power plant. The girl’s parents
were immigrants from the exclusion zone. The struggle for survival
Oksana started from the moment of birth. Even now, after living twenty
years in prosperous America, of the days spent in the orphanage, she
prefers once again not to remember. And even afraid to think what would
it was if one night her five-year the little girl, has not led to the
principal’s office for a meeting with a pretty woman, talking in an
incomprehensible language. With that frosty December evening for
43-year-old American Ms.Gey Masters also began to fight for Oksana and
her health. Then the woman and present that her daughter would become a
famous athlete, representing the country at the Paralympics. Both on
summer competitions (Canoeing) and in the winter (biathlon and cross
country skiing).
*Athlete became the winner of the summer Paralympics in London (2012) and winter in Sochi (2014)
Only now Gay masters were able to implement most sacred dream his
adopted daughter — to see Ukraine. Family Masters flew in to Kiev only
for a few days, but once in the cycle of meetings, records, television
and radio, interviews, road trips, they lost track of time.Here’s our
the conversation took place after the “round table” dedicated to the
education of children with disabilities. I caught myself thinking that
at all didn’t feel officialdom during the event, held in the “American
house”. It was a long time ago not seen friends. Eight-year-old Vlad
(the girl came with a foster mother) touched her to tears, giving
hand-made doll-motanka, hair ribbon, wooden beads and pattern. Memory
photo, autographs, a friendly hug… for about half an hour Oksana
communicated the guy who lost his leg in the ATO. Young people
enthusiastically discussed technical characteristics and capabilities of
modern prostheses.— Oksana, suspected that you would be so popular in
Ukraine?— Oh! Hi! exclaims Ukrainian Oksana, and then continues in
English: — It’s awesome! In Ukraine are very hospitable people! So many
meetings, so many Dating. I’m overwhelmed with emotions. All of these I
had a dream about the trip home. And when this summer we received an
invitation from the U.S. Embassy in Ukraine for a few days to fly to
Kiev my mother never doubted. At my first Paralympics in London in 2012 I
wanted to me someone gave the icon of the national team of Ukraine. And
now, during this round table, President Paralympic Committee of Ukraine
Valeriy Sushkevich handed me this icon. I’m so happy! Proud of being
born in Ukraine.— Before the trip, Oksana very worried — smiles the
girl’s mother Gay masters (in the photo). — Kept saying: “What we going
to do? We in Ukraine do not know anyone. Suddenly I don’t like it?”— I
want to ask you both question: do you remember the day when I first saw
each other?— I was five years old, recalls Oksana. — Was dark and cold
evening. I like and other children, was asleep in bed under the covers
when I was called into the principal’s office. It was hard to go because
of wearing of clothing is a pair of sweaters, tights, pants. I was this
clumsy. In the office there were several people but first I saw Gay and
for some reason I thought that this is my mom. She hugged me and gave a
soft toy. However, after this meeting, she had to leave right away,
still need I had to make a lot of adoption papers. She left his picture
hung on the wall near my bed. I was very afraid that Gay will not return
me.— The adoption process took one and a half year, says Gay masters. —
As I found Oksana? My friends through the international Fund adopted a
boy from Russia and offered to do it and me. I have long dreamed of a
child. In the Fund I showed a photo of Oksana, not hiding the fact that
she is disabled. The photo was a cute girl with rosy cheeks. My first
thought — my child! And I flew in Ukraine. Of course, very much was
afraid to go to the former The Soviet Union. We got to some like me
seemed, a small village closer to midnight. Children the house I
remember cold and dark, some icy.When brought Oksana, she is still not
fully awake and looked scared. No word spoke English. In his five years
the growth of the girl was less than a meter and weighed only 15 pounds.
Although in the eyes of the girl I saw that she is a winner in life. By
that time in Ukraine, Oksana has already had five operations. The first
years after adoption I was very scared to have girls was negative for
cancer, she received a large dose exposure.— Oksana and how the change
took in your life?— At first my daughter was worried that, if she will
not obey, I will return her back — responsible Gay. — Director of the
children’s the house has always scared the inmates, saying that those
who bad leads, will not be parents. But in the end Oksana realized how
much I love her. We’ve been together for so many survived. In eight
years my daughter had to amputate one leg, and in twelve and two. In
America she moved a total of ten surgical interventions — on the hands,
feet… and teeth. Thank God we have a good health insurance covering all
costs including modern the prostheses.From new York we had to move
because there in the winter a lot of snow and very slippery. Prostheses
Oksana was difficult to walk. We settled in Louisville closer to the
rehabilitation center. With my daughter constantly worked therapists,
psychologists.— You know, in childhood don’t realize that you’re not
like all, — says Oksana. — The lack of hands or legs doesn’t make us
different. We’re all not perfect. I, like a normal child, I wanted to
run and jump. I liked to climb on roofs and in trees. Went on the bike,
played football and baseball. My mom resolved all. If I did not, I was
looking for the ability to overcome difficulties. Never not spared, was
very stubborn. And when I said: “You can’t handle it”, it is, instead,
gave forces. Learn from their mistakes.Even when Oksana amputated one
leg, the girl on the prosthesis have mastered the skates and spent a lot
of time at the rink. Did and horse riding, but after unsuccessfully
caught a prosthesis for the harness and the horse a few meters stretched
her on the ground, this sport had to leave. I tried it your hand and in
a sitting volleyball.— In America for children with disabilities very
many rehabilitation centers and sports camps, says Gay masters. — Oksana
attended a regular school, no favors no one she didn’t do. I am a
member of an international group mothers alone raising children with
special needs. We get good support. In the group about 600 children we
work with 1200 volunteers. Each summer Oksana went to sports camp, where
he was engaged in Jogging, swimming, rowing. In rowing daughter and won
his first serious competition, and then and selection for the
Paralympic games.At The 2012 Games in London Oksana masters is paired
with Rob Johnson became the bronze prize-winner. By the way, Johnson
lost both legs on the war in Afghanistan. During this visit the girl
enthusiastically accepted the invitation to visit the wounded in the
Kiev Central military hospital.— When we arrived at the hospital, I was,
frankly, shocked, Oksana tells. — To to meet with the guys, I had to
overcome the enormous the number of steps. How to cope with it people in
wheelchairs, without legs, on crutches? Why such offices placed on the
second floor of a building with no Elevator? I really liked to chat with
the soldiers. I showed how removable dentures, as you can safely do
without them. Explained that there is nothing wrong in the lack of feet
or hands. And for such people, nothing is impossible. All obstacles we
have in mind. Told that there will come a day when they will be very
hard. But in the end their body will adapt to everything.— Gay does
Oksana on the farm?— Now my daughter’s very busy schedule and rarely to
be found at home. But she knows how to cook and clean. And it cleans so
much better than me (laughs).After moving in America Oksana very often
asked me to cook soup and porridge, which the children were constantly
fed in the orphanage. At the time I taught at the University, the
grandmother of one of my students was originally from Ukraine. Knowing
that I adopted the girl from her native country, she gave me a recipe
for borscht. For Oksana, I learned to cook these dishes. However, after
trying the borscht in Ukraine, understood, what adjustments need to be
made in my prescription.— Daughter asked you for permission to get a
tattoo?— No, says Gay. — When Oksana turned eighteen, got her first
tattoo. I warned my daughter that if she will bring infection the
treatment will not (smiles).— I have a lot of tattoos,— Oksana shows
off. — The first is the key with lock. I saw a beautiful pattern and
very wanted to get this tattoo. Then came the second. It’s a rose. With
one hand she is beautiful, blooming, and faded and faded. But the the
rose always remains a rose even if some will fade. I believe that people
are beautiful regardless of skin color, hair length or the presence of
hand-foot… On shoulder — flower, with which the wind blows the petals,
and they, flying, turn the butterfly has the inscription “Let go and be
free.”
*Oksana masters: “I wanted the people who saw these the photos were
once again able to ensure that the human body with disabilities can
also be beautiful”— Oksana, you have made bold and an extraordinary act,
starring in Frank photo shoot for the sports calendar. I wanted so the
people seeing these pictures, was able again to make sure, the body of a
person with disabilities may also to be beautiful. But I had no idea
that my candid pictures will become popular all over the world. I
started calling friends: “Oh! We have seen online pictures of you.
You’re great!” I began to be recognized even in other countries.— What
is your dream?— Want to win Paralympic gold, while I have only “bronze”
in rowing and “silver” and “bronze” in ski races. And really want to try
yourself in the race. But until I, unfortunately, don’t have the means
to to buy a special prosthesis for running. I hope this is my dream will
still come true. see more detail on Ukraine adoption programs…
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